Sex is an energy reducer. It requires a lot of energy. Energies released could also be traumatic. Most people rely on sex to stop them from thinking of a very painful experience. Don't make a mistake of thinking he or she loves you after having sex with him or her.
Three years ago, I was suffering from emotional breakdown. I pretended to be happy. I tried all I could to be happy, none worked for me. I resorted to sex. I met a lady on my way home, struck a conversation, she liked me as a person and before I could say "Jack Robinson" we were in bed. After the whole thing, the moment I said "I love you", that was the end. She disappeared into the thin air; deleted my number and moved on.
A year later, I met another girl inside a bus. We started talking, this time around, it was she who wanted the relief. I read the signs, I spoke some sweet words, flirted a little, she responded in the affirmative and I almost concluded. Well, I didn't want to make a mistake,I suggested to her," shall we go to my abode?" She said no at first; I read the looks in her eyes and the tone of her shaky voice, there was a yes in her no. So, I insisted and we landed in my bed. Again, the moment I said,"be my girlfriend", that was the last I heard from her.
It is important to identify that I could have continued to have sex with these ladies if I never uttered the words "I love you" or "be my girlfriend". Love is not sex, sex isn't love. This sounds like a cliché but its the simple truth. Sex, however, cements love. Learn to separate both.
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